Chook Me!

my insecurities are gonna ruin me .. help?

my bf has 2 ex gfs ... one of which was supposedly quite popular .. she s good at sports .. academics .. ..she s quite interestin ... n she speaks the english lang like a prof. from haward .but due to some confusion they broke up .. n she was his 1st luv. n the 2nd one .. has the prettiest face on the planet .. she has tis aura around her wenever she's present in a room o place .. but they broke up in just 1 or 2 months .. he called the quits cos she was too clingy n din have life . but weneva i c her .. i die .. its like m so jeolous .. its crazy .. m tis chick who was never good at academics .. i suck at sports ..i m not goodlookin but i have a gr8 bod.. n recently i think i ve put on weight .. i feel ugly .. stupid n sometimes feel i need plastic surgery ... but our relationship is gr8 .. i don like bothering him with questions like do u still think of em .. ? is she more attractive ? we have fights all d time..n i really luv him .. .n ya my english sucks too. i think m dyslexic.

Public Comments

1. find something else ... uuumm anyone....... uuummmmm me .... hahhaa
2. Just remember this--he chose to be with you. Evidently there was something that did not click with them. Just be the best that you can be and he will just have to be satisfied with that. Don't keep questioning him about them. You are just putting them into his mind, and making yourself sound unworthy. Jealousy will destroy a relationship. Better keep it to yourself if you can't overcome it. Be strong!! Good Luck.
3. chill out, dont worry so much. he still loves you and doing this to him will just make him NOT love you. his ex was all the past. think, why did he break up with her if she is so picture perfect??? HE LOVES YOU GIRL OR ELSE HE WOULDNT HAVE BROKEN UP WITH SUCH A "PERFECT" GIRL. stop feeling so insecure!!!!