Chook Me! - is this guy gay?

is this guy gay?

right thisguy has prettier face than most chicks in my class big eyes an plump lips, is skinny, he plays hte violin and writes poems but hes good at sports aswel. anyways everyone says hes gay and takes the mickey, he doesnt say anythin wen somone calls him so. Hes only friends with 1 emo gal. My mate wanted to piss him of and started tearing up 1 of of his drawings slowly so this guy punched him. that was stupid coz my mate hit back an nocked him down an some othe guys kicked him couple of times. he wasnt cryin but looked pale an realy weird. I was just watchin but i felt bad for him, i like this guy an want to make friends of somthin

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Would it make a difference if he was? Just because a guy is "pretty" does not make him gay. My very straight brother plays violin and has done since he was really little. As for poetry and drawing, so what? If he wants to be creative, let him. Not enough people are anymore. Compliment him on one of his drawings or something, you never know, you might get on really well.
I don't think he's gay. I think he just likes art and music. Which, incidentally, most girls love. Maybe your friends should be looking up to him, rather than picking on him. If you really want to make friends with him, try backing him up in front of your friends. They sound like they're picking on him, and if you're just standing by and letting them do it you're just as bad.
What if he is, should it matter....I have gay mates there the best and you'll stand out from the crowd for accepting him for whatever he is...good luck
well all i can say your mate is insecure, if he needs to hit someone just for a laugh , why what reason because he is good at things he does ...i hope he hits the wrong bloke one day and gets a smack back twice as hard..and to be honest mate if you stood bye and just watched i would tell you to p*@ss off too...!
If I was his friend you'd all be dead already.
Well aren't you & your friend just a pair of sh!thouse bullies.
wow i forgot how slack people can be. That's disgusting, get over it, who cares if he is gay. You and your friends must be really insecure. If you do decide to be his friend or even just talk to him it might mean alot. Get over yourself and common misconceptions, he could be a great guy and you may never know.
some of the best looking guys i've known in my life were straight.. and they were beautiful.. very beautiful... not handsome.. it doesn't matter what our activities are, and what you participate in at school... every person has different likes and dislikes.. and some people are forced by their parents into certain activities at that age. so, you say you want to be his friend... tell me, was it friendly to stand by and let him get the crap beat out of him... all of you need to take a break, and look at the way your acting towards this person... check out your ulterior motives... and why this is so danged important to you...
If someone is a little different at school they will be treated like poo.It's just that kids can be very cruel and don't like to have their space taken up by someone different and go into a bully frenzy.You are wanting to bond with him yet your so called mate did this,I think you are working with double standards here.You will really have to make a choice on this.As for him being gay, this is one thing that only he will know and is not for others to judge.Sometimes these hate things are in reality only out of jelisey.
Well your friends sound like complete di*k heads and as do you for standing there and watching it happen without saying anything
Gay or not i cant say whether he is or he isnt. BUT you have some really idiotic friends to hang with, btw you say you like this guy and want to make him a friend of yours, you should have done something when your mates attacked him, thats exactly what i have done if i was in your place, and not watch him get beaten up, if i was his friend, you and your friends would be collecting your teeth from the ground for what you did. Next time this happens, dont just stare as he gets beaten up, ur a man, go be a man, DO SOMETHING
My advice to him would be to keep well away from you and your friends. I am disgusted that you just stood back and watched someone be punched and kicked. It does not matter who they are or what they are you don't treat people like that. Ps Go back to school and learn how to spell and write.
There's no actual sign that he's gay. The facial features are just his genes. Violin and poems are just creativity. Not reacting to stupid name-calling: maturity. Man, I would've helped him if I'd been there. And not crying: the guy's got balls.
Wow, I think some of you answerer's have really missed the point here...he's not asking if he's gay because he's some homophobic jerk, it sounds to me as though he's saying he fancies him. Anyway, it's pretty impossible to tell if he's gay or not, but regardless it sounds like this guy could really use a friend. Besides I think you kind of need to make it up to him that you did nothing to stop him getting beat up by your friends. (And this will probably mean it'll take a bit of effort to get him to trust you.) So stand up for this guy and stand up to your friends because you can bet your @ss they'll start on you when they realise your not conforming to their group. How you actually stand up to them is up to you, you know these guys best: it might be a case of simply rebelling and apologising to and making friends with this guy, or telling your friends they are out of order, I don't know. Whatever route you take, good luck.