Chook Me!

How hard is it to juggle three relationships and not get caught.?

I feel the pressure. Ive been dating this hot chick for about 4 years now who I love. I mean you wont believe how much I love her but I love her so much. Then I have this married woman who I have been sleeping with for about 7 months now and she is pretty banging for being so old (29) and then I just got into another relationship with this college girl who is smokn. Well my problem is since I picked up the college chick, My gf of 7years is saying Im not spending enough time and I think she might be catching on. What can I do to get her to think otherwise. I feel the noose around my neck on this one and I need to get out because I don't want to lose any of them. Help!

Public Comments

1. Sorry to burst your bubble, but it's only a matter of time, Dear. Just bend over and take it now by telling them all. Just say, "I like all of you." If they are cool with that and want to see other people, better for you. If not, they still deserve a chance to say whether they want to be with YOU or not. Either way, the truth always comes out. Sometimes sooner, sometimes later, but it always does!
2. it is stupid and useless if not anything else
3. They should catch on. Just remember that cheating is wrong and karma is a real b*tch. So when your really REALLY in love and out of this playa phase your girl then might do it back to you. Don't dish out what you can't take back.
4. Basically, you don't love "the hot chick" that you've been dating for 4 years. If you did, you wouldn't even think of dating anyone else. The "29" year old is a slut. And I feel deep sympathy for the college girl who probably assumes she found a nice guy. You are the lowest form of scum on the earth and if you really cared for any of them, you would leave them and let them find decent men who will actually care for them.
5. Your love is divided into 3 thats how much you love all of them. The more you have the love will bediluted. Lets not kid yourself. Or you actually do not love all of them. you just want to have sex with them. Just like eating food, you would want to have many varieties thats it. Just like food you cannot eat all at onetime. You will get choke to death. Most probably this is what you are feeling right now. The best situation out is think through your thoughts. Which one you would likely end up with? If you find the answer, slowly drop the other two. If you do not get any answer.. then just continue what ever you are doing.. as the outcome would not hurt you at all... take care..