Chook Me!

Goth Boys Love Hip-Hop Chicks?

For all my goth boys, you probably won't get this, because most goths and punks and other alternative subcultures stick to "their" scene and date "their" women, but there must be something wrong with me. See, I'm a goth kid, if I were to be labled that is. Only, I for some reason LOVE the preppy, hip hop, and all around opposite of goth chicks, especially the latinas. I wear a dog collar, trench coat, Tripp pants, and Sisters of Mercy t shirts, but like the chicks in the Hollister tops, or the hater blockers, or what have you. Problem is, they never seem to like me. I generally hang out with either the "skaters" or the "thugs", because thats really all there is here, and I want to get a hip hopper WITHOUT sacrificing the way I dress. This isn't possible, is it? For the record, I hate labels, just giving you an idea.

Public Comments

1. quit being a fag.
2. the best thing would be to just get to know one of those hip hop chicks. but you have to be yourself. express an interest in them.
3. Sure it's possible. People date their exact opposites all the time! Just show some interest in some of these ridiculous Hollister chicks and see what happens. My guess is that some of them will be totally happy to have a guy that is actually interesting pay attention to them. xo.....Christina http://myspace.com/mikepattonisgod
4. Thats really interesting......to be honest i have a passing interest for gothic chicks......and i am hip hop... But thats just part of being a male, a hot chick is a hot chick no matter the label........ As far as getting a girl like that you would just have to be open and willing to start conversations with different girls and start from square one......Just like your open minded theirs plenty of girls who find themselves who goes against what there "Culture" finds acceptable......
5. well you hang out with skaters and thugs surprised they hang with you but just have one of htem tell the girl you like her. nothing is impossible unless you iresponsible ...does that even make sense
6. do you actually listen to the sisters of mercy or did you buy that shirt because its a goth band really i'd go into public wearing an element shirt but i'm goth dude.. clothes doesn't matter.
7. Kiddo, here's the quick answer. You're not Goth. And you just like girls who are attractive. In your area, they must mostly happen to be that kind of girl. I'm sure if you met the right female Goth you'd change your tune. You can't possibly make an assumption based on labels, which you "hate" ...?
8. that's gotta be about the cutest thing i've ever heard in my whole life! i'm not going to say that it's impossible but it might be difficult. i go through the same thing here on a daily basis. i've been in the goth "scene" for quite some time now and i could swear that it's all the same people. that, and i don't want to date myself, so i tend to stay away from dating other goths, romantically speaking. depending upon the females in question, their not liking you is merely because they don't know you (unless you're genuinely creepy or a jerk). aside from a basic physical attraction, do you have anything in common with them that you know of? do you have classes together or anything that would allow you to start a conversation? you said that you hang out with "skaters" and "thugs" - are any of them friends/neighbors/related to the girls you're attracted to? i mean, all it really takes is one person. good luck!