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i think this goth chick likes me?

ok, at school, i'm your typical jock. I lift weights, i'm on the football team, and i'm on the baseball team. And well, in my 3rd hour there's this goth girl who I think likes me. (and i don't hate goth people i just don't really know any of them.) and well she always stares at me. when i catch her doing it she turns away. Everyone says she's a lesbian but i don't think she is, most of my friends make fun of her (i don't i hate when people do that). and a couple days ago I accidentally ran into her and she replied by saying "walk much?" in a very pissed off sort of way, and later that day i accidentally walked into her again and this time she said in an even more pissed off tone "get a f*cking eye dog". That's all i've really heard her say so it's hard to read her. I don't know, what should i do?

Public Comments

1. Well, if you're interested in her, talk to her If not, best not to lead her on ~ she might be into voodoo
2. I don't know, put a note in her locker and ask then write down your locker # and ask her to reply
3. eww goths goths are ugly their more ugly then Halloween
4. first of all, don't call her goth chick. cause she will probably be even more pissy. and based on what you've said, she would probably deny liking you if you flat out asked her. this sounds so completely middle school, but ask her friends. or if you're real daring, be nice. talk to her. have some form of freindship aside from the crude hallway accidents. maybe she'll lighten up and you'll learn something. good luck, jock dude.
5. well do you like her?? if you dont then just let it go and ignore her, she just might be weird. if you do like her well try talking to her. she may just assume you DON'T like her. i know i used to be her!! i used to like this popular guy and i automatically assumed he didnt like me. so if you do like her make an effort and talk to her! :D
6. Next time she takes that tone with you, just say, You know you like me, so stop pretending like you don't like me when i know damn well that you do. And see what she says. She sounds like she has a great sense of humor. I like her already :)
7. She sounds really grumpy, she probably thinks you're just like your friends and make fun of her. It sounds to me like you like her, so you should try and show her how you're different than that. Very soon you will realise that distinctions like "goth" or "jock" don't matter at all in the real world. What matters is being a nice person and fun to be around.
8. Hi, yeah, been on the other end of that. A guy on the football team liked me, and I could have liked him back except- his friends were grade A jerks. I could never be entirely sure how he felt about me since he didn't defend me to his friends. I never did trust him enough to go out with him when he asked me. She was probably rude to you because she gets made fun of a lot and feels defensive. She might like you- but she almost certainly thinks you don't like her, because of how your friends act. She must see something in you though, so if you like her, I'd suggest talking to her. Be nice to her and also her friends. If she's cross at first, give her time. She probably thinks you're messing with her somehow. But eventually, if you're just a decent guy in general, she'll see that, and you two can move on from there. Even if you don't really have a thing for her, I highly reccommend being decent to her and everyone else anyway. You'll have a better reputation, and make the world a slightly better place, you know? You never know who's really a cool person till you get to know them. If your friends are putting everyone down, you might voice the opinion that it bugs you. They probably dont mean half of what they say, and probably ought to realise that not everyone approves.
9. dont start off saying 'i heard you liked me etc'. just start being nice to her, and ignore any rude remarks she makes b/c they're probably either to hide the fact she likes you or a defense mechanism built up against bullying. if you really like her then just get to know her, and try not to stereotype her (goths tend to get very offended by stuff like that)