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Do any guys know a college girl that is not as pretty as she believes and is perhaps ugly?

Folks, do not misunderstand me: Personality reigns supreme as the mark of a good relationship, but looks do matter some, if not a lot to some people. My question regards the girls that might not be perfectly attractive---this being no problem---yet find themselves super-attractive and come along with an unjustified and gartuan ego attached. Maybe they're hiding the fact, through this ego enhancement, that they do know they're not "the hottest chick on the block." It's a shame because typically if the girl is healthy and without deformities (just being brutally honest) a guy can find in her some attraction. But when the girl actually comes off like she believes herself to be the offspring of Sophi Loren or Marilyn Monroe, but is definitely not, it ruins her. Any guys agree?

Public Comments

1. yes, there are these 2 girls at my school who walk around like they are top shit. They go tanning way to much and me and my friends call them the over done turkeys.
2. I'm a woman and I agree. See waaaaay to many of them aroundcampus - actually friends with some. You are not alone.
3. oh yea half the girls in my college. even the fat hoes think their the shit. and i blame it on desperate dude. they should be like me and treat broads like shit all the time. cause when you think about it a hoe ain't shit but a dick cover. and once men realize that then hoes will start to act like a woman
4. Any girl who wears makeup fits that description. They are of the delusion they are much more attractive than they really are when donning their disguise.
5. Yes. The uglier she is, the more humorous this becomes. If she's fat as well it's just ROFL central. For some reason it's the fat black girls that usually delude themselves into thinking they're hot stuff. Maybe because they think their "big booties" are what guys want.
6. Are you one of those guys who think ugly girls should dress in ugly clothes and not bother doing their hair and faces? It sounds like it. But then you'd be on here asking Why are there so many lazy ugly girls who won't try to enhance their appearances? I also think you think women in general aren't supposed to have any self esteem at all, and that if they aren't sad for their plights all the time, then they "have a big ego." Coz it's "bigger" than you think it should be, if they're not acting like a dredge of society all day long and trying to get your attention and boost your ego all day.
7. I'm not shallow enough to pay attention to that sort of thing. If someone thinks they are pretty and they are not, what do I care? I don't hang out with people with big egos, pretty or not pretty. So it is a moot point. Just go find a different girl to hang out with.
8. yeah, if someone is always a snob, i wouldn't like to date them. as you say i quote"Personality reigns supreme as the mark of a good relationship"
9. What? Anyway, give me a hot chick, great education and job that can have a real conversation and I'm set. I don't settle for anything less.
10. I'm not guy but i do understand where you are coming from. I think the thing that upset me the most is the fact they are being cocky. Being cocky can turn off some people. Looks isn't everything but as long as the person is comfortable in their skin that is good enough for me.
11. I'm a girl and i totally agree. My friends and I are constantly rolling our eyes at people like this. Its possible that the girl read a magazine that said guys like confident girls, and shes just trying to do that. Whatever the reason, she's setting herself up for ridicule.
12. I'm not a guy but a girl who has friends like that and I don't think it is necessarily a bad thing it is better than being depressed and low. For my friends it comes from their parents/siblings telling them they are georgeous all through life and they believe it even though it is obvious they are not, one girl paid a modelling agency for pictures etc believing she could be a model when is is 5 4" and not attrative at all, none of us said anything to her because she is happy in life and that is more important.
13. what is beauty? Poison ivy can be beautiful but you might not want to touch it. " beauty is in the eye of the beholder" so they say. In this world you have " inside" and "outside people. Some like the wrapper, and some like the contents. Me? I never found much value in the wrapper myself. Somehow, someone, somewhere defined what beauty is supposed to be and many brainwashed people followed his idea. What serves more of a purpose, a faithful woman who really and truly loves you and is willing to give her life to you , to raise your children, and be your mate for life? Or some "pretty" bimbo who just stays with you because you spend a lot on her and pamper her even though she " shakes it " at every hunk she sees. Most of these self proclaimed queens spent so much time powdering their egos that they never learned to cook or to be a faithful wife. All they are looking for is some sugar daddy who has all the money to give her a maid and do what she don,t have to. To me this isn,t love, it,s using. Simply put. It is what is in her heart than what is in her powder case. Remember, an old rambler that gets you from point a to point b is better than a new audi with a blown engine that you can never afford to fix that just takes up space in the driveway.
14. Most of us are not "the hottest chick on the block". In fact non of us are except that one chick. Confidence gives us the strength to try and find an attractive mate--because as you said looks do matter some--and I for one don't want to have to settle just because I don't look like the offspring of Sophi Loren. Would you rather have us all feel down on ourselves with low self-esteem, and never have the confidence to try and date someone like you, assuming you're attractive :)