Chook Me!

How do I get dudes & chicks to notice me at a college dance?

I'm visiting my friend at her community college dorm and the college is having a dance tonight. I'm bi & like cute dudes & chicks. I'm a very good dancer at dancing stripperish and sluttyish. It's unfortunately the only way i know how to dance and it just comes natural not purposely. his is me: http://i295.photobucket.com/albums/mm149/hollisterkid2008/School%20Luau%20Theme%20Dance/Quebec%20City%20April%202008/001.jpg http://i295.photobucket.com/albums/mm149/hollisterkid2008/School%20Luau%20Theme%20Dance/Quebec%20City%20April%202008/Me/l_0af3c18eb700ab15f1a2a77d53ff8b-1.jpg the sun makes meelook white and my hair look bleached when it's really not. http://i295.photobucket.com/albums/mm149/hollisterkid2008/School%20Luau%20Theme%20Dance/Quebec%20City%20April%202008/Me/l_77c352830390d9d709100c6124fea8bc.jpg http://i295.photobucket.com/albums/mm149/hollisterkid2008/School%20Luau%20Theme%20Dance/Quebec%20City%20April%202008/024.jpg Will my looks help me at all or am I ugly? I'm really shy but not around friends but I want to dance with cute chicks & dudes but I want them to come up to me cause I'm uber shy. I didn't mean to come off as conceited if I did cause I'm not conceited in the least. I was just wondering if I'm cute enough that maybe someone or some people will approach me? http://i295.photobucket.com/albums/mm149/hollisterkid2008/l_5459885346956a06db11a33edd8edbdb.jpg I'm 18 but I'll be 19 next month. These pics are recent btw so it's not like they are from 3 years ago. they are from this year. thanks for complimenting and say i look young i appreciate that =] lol =p i can't approach either im way too shy but approaching a dude is worse because you have idea if their bi/gay and if they are straght wow we all know what that is like lol =p thanks for positive comments =] but i was also asking how do get cute dudes & chicks to notice me. lol =p i just post my pics for people that havn't seen me yet that way they can help with the answer or whatever but if i would of known everyone saw what i looked like i wouldn't of bothered posting pics.

Public Comments

1. um sorry but you do not look 18..how old ar you? youre not ugly just so young. if i were to be at that party, i wouldnt approach you cause well for starters im taken lol but if i werent you dont look 18 lol. edit: someone might lol. edit: lmao lol you look like youre 16ish lol. cool cool. lol. then yeah haha. someone would should take an interest in you. edit: crestfal... hes cute lol just looks so young and me being 18 lol i, if i didnt know he was 18 and was interested, i would be very hesitant to try anything since he wouldnt be legal. edit: ukis right lol.you need a hair cut or just trim it a bit.
2. Don't doubt your looks! but smile, that second picture scared me :( ! You're good looking though, don't be nervous. Edit: ahhh, so breathless baby I salute you lol, I think he looks young and needs a haircut too but I would have never said! He does look good though. Edit: Uki made me lmao!
3. You are not ugly. Love your hair, just maybe add some sutle makeup, eyeliner or whatever, maybe your friend can lend you some tight jeans and shirt, show off a bit , look more gayish or bi.
4. aaah...it's you again. How many times have you tried to show your pics anyway? Well, you look good, just need a haircut cause it's so old!
5. You're cute. But that alone won't guarantee that people are going to come up to you and ask you to dance. Remember that while you're pre-occupied with your own shyness and worrying about what YOU look like and wondering if anyone is going to like what they see when they look at you -- everyone else at that dance is thinking and worrying about the same thing. They can't even see you, because they're too busy worrying about what THEY look like and whether anyone will notice THEM! The key difference is being INTERESTING vs being INTERESTED. If you focus your attention on being INTERESTING, you'll probably wind up alone. OTOH, if you can get your attention off of yourself and be INTERESTED in other people, you'll probably have plenty of people to dance with and talk to. I suggest that when you go to the dance, you look around the room and try to spot some cute dude or chick who looks as shy and uncomfortable as you feel. Set aside your own feelings, go up to that person, and say hello -- make a point of welcoming them and helping them feel more comfortable. You'll get over your own shyness and find a cute dance partner at the same time.
6. your not ugly you're gorgeous. and i already noticed you, duh. P: just be yourself, you're awesome.