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My gf left because of her weight gain?

So last week my girlfriend packs her stuff and leaves the house while I'm at work. She leaves a note saying she can't be around me any more. And she won't take my calls. I'm trying to figure out why. We loved each other and I was planning on proposing soon. I think I know what happened. When we first met she was a petite and adorable young lady who I was instantly smitten with. We started dating shortly and so on. Anyway, I am an excellent cook and I loved cooking for my girl. I would make chicken parmesan, spaghetti, rigatoni, casseroles, meatloaf, pork chops, and other tasty, great dishes. For dessert I would make chocolate double fudge cake, souffles, cheesecakes, or pies. At first she ate very little, but soon she was eating everything on her plate and having seconds. So after about a year of us dating she really filled out. She gained more than 45 pounds, and although I tried to get her to exercise with me, she never would. I found her new body sexy: her gigantic bottom, her wonderful curves, her fuller face. I preferred skinny women, but I still found her incredible sexy. But she was on the morbid side near the end. So anyway now she's gone and I think this was the reason. HELP ME!!!

Public Comments

1. Probably left due to Verbal Abuse.
2. GOSH...i wish there were more guys like you in the world...some poeple wont even cook for their gf's.....but you seem very caring and lovable...anyway...you just have to keep on trying...i know thats not very good advice but....you can do it...how long can she stay mad, and away from delicious food....LOL... good luck...you honestly didnt do anything wrong
3. No point in being a relationship with a girl who doesn't love them self. She doesn't care about you as much as you do her. If she did, she would stay and remained happy with you. But she left, she is self fish. Time to move on my friend.
4. i think for future girlfriends you should try serving up smaller portions, if she only has an appetite for a certain amount why give her more than she can eat? eventually if she keeps pushing her stomach it stretches so she can fit more, so just keep the portions to what she is hungry fo. i eat probably half of what my brother does, people have different metabolisms and as a woman you should not be giving her the same amount you give yourself.
5. you should do everything you can to try to talk to her especially if she means so much to you. its very difficult for women to deal with extra weight. i bet she'd love it if you chased after her...