Chook Me!

My girlfriend gained weight and left, help!?

So last week my girlfriend packs her stuff and leaves the house while I'm at work. She leaves a note saying she can't be around me any more. And she won't take my calls. I'm trying to figure out why. We loved each other and I was planning on proposing soon. I think I know what happened. When we first met she was a petite and adorable young lady who I was instantly smitten with. We started dating shortly and so on. Anyway, I am an excellent cook and I loved cooking for my girl. I would make chicken parmesan, spaghetti, rigatoni, casseroles, meatloaf, pork chops, and other tasty, great dishes. For dessert I would make chocolate double fudge cake, souffles, cheesecakes, or pies. At first she ate very little, but soon she was eating everything on her plate and having seconds. So after about a year of us dating she really filled out. She gained more than 45 pounds, and although I tried to get her to exercise with me, she never would. I found her new body sexy: her gigantic bottom, her wonderful curves, her fuller face. I preferred skinny women, but I still found her incredible sexy. But she was on the morbid side near the end. So anyway now she's gone and I think this was the reason. HELP ME!!!

Public Comments

1. it migth be that she was pregnat if you guys were sleeping together and she can't tell you. it probablly wasn't the food, it was something else, and the food is just a small detail, not even that important in the relationship.
2. So what's the question?
3. tell her that! tell her that you still find her attractive and still love her! you need to do this! trust me.. i am self conscious about my weight and i would think that i do not deserve a guy because of my weight. maybe thats how she feels. go to her parents, (prob mom) and ask her if she can help you get in touch with her! go tell her you love her!