My boyfriend is in grade 12 and i'm in grade 10.. We have been dating for a year now. In less than a year he will be going to college and he wants a break so he can experience college... In other words he wants to party and screw all the hot chicks.. By the time he is finished what he wants to do, it will be my turn for college, and he wants to get a good job and find a place to rent near the school i want to go to.. I want that so badly, I would rather be with him than party and sleep around with a bunch of guys, but should I really wait around for him? I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy. I have never felt this way about anybody(I know im young you don't have to lecture me about that) Just the thought of him being with a bunch of other girls breaks my heart and I just wanted to know if anyone else has gone through this. I want him to be happy but then again I can't just neglect my needs. Any suggestions? Any comment or opinion on anything i said is appreciated. Thanks in advance!