Chook Me!

My girlfriend left because of her weight, what do I do?!?

So last week my girlfriend packs her stuff and leaves the house while I'm at work. She leaves a note saying she can't be around me any more. And she won't take my calls. I'm trying to figure out why. We loved each other and I was planning on proposing soon. I think I know what happened. When we first met she was a petite and adorable young lady who I was instantly smitten with. We started dating shortly and so on. Anyway, I am an excellent cook and I loved cooking for my girl. I would make chicken parmesan, spaghetti, rigatoni, casseroles, meatloaf, pork chops, and other tasty, great dishes. For dessert I would make chocolate double fudge cake, souffles, cheesecakes, or pies. At first she ate very little, but soon she was eating everything on her plate and having seconds. So after about a year of us dating she really filled out. She gained more than 45 pounds, and although I tried to get her to exercise with me, she never would. I found her new body sexy: her gigantic bottom, her wonderful curves, her fuller face. I preferred skinny women, but I still found her incredible sexy. But she was on the morbid side near the end. So anyway now she's gone and I think this was the reason. HELP ME!!! WHAT DO I DO?!

Public Comments

1. That made me tear I laughed so hard.
2. Say exactly this!! I found her new body sexy: her gigantic bottom, her wonderful curves, her fuller face. I preferred skinny women, but I still found her incredible sexy. Let her know you don't care, that you still find her attractive and sexy!
3. I don't think your cooking was the problem. Any sane gf wouldn't leave because of that. A guy that can cook is always a good thing. Look deeper into your relationship and maybe you'll find something else that was the problem.
4. YOWSER, BOWSER, , I'D SAY AT LEAST 95%+. OF US GUYS LOVE A 'vOLUPTIOUS WOMAN. Show her this.cause skinny is many and what we want is Sophia Loren!!!!!
5. Sounds like there's more to the story....perhaps she left because you commented on her weight too often. Chicks often feel insecure when they are overweight and if you made it a topic of conversation many times, she probably felt like it was the only thing you associated with her...the fact that she gained a lot of weight, that is. Also, if you ever teased her about her weight and she didn't appreciate it, that could be why she left. It's difficult for a girl who has put on weight during a relationship, they know they've changed physically and everyone in the world reminds them of it! It's annoying, especially if they are not 100% comfortable in their own skin anymore. So, if you always talked about her weight gain or made subtle hints at how/why she needed to lose the weight...she probably just got tired of it. If I were you, I would try to call her in a few days (or maybe in a week or so) explain how you've had time to think about all the reasons WHY she could've left, but it's important for you to know the true reason.