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Will my boyfriend move on in college?

I've been with my boyfriend since 9th grade. We're both seniors now, and we really love each other. We're both going to the same University. We go to separate high schools, so I actually think we'll grow closer when we get to see each other more often in college (we only see each other 1 or 2 times a week currently). But I'm afraid he'll leave me for some hot college chick... Does anybody else have experience with highschool boyfriends (or girlfriends) lasting into college? What happened? The statistic that only 2% of high school sweethearts get married scares me :( I'm pretty sure he's not going to sleep with other girls...we're actually waiting until marriage. If he was planning on sleeping with someone, he would probably pressure me more first xD

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1. If it is meant to be, if he truly loves and cares for you and vice versa, there isn't anything to worry about. Also keep in mind that everything happens for a reason. My boyfriend and I go to the same college, we've been together for almost two years now. Oh by the way, we have been together since my 11th grade year, he was a senior. It depends on the people. Talk about things, but don't get too crazy over it. And think, does it feel right? Is the truly the one? Do the goods outweigh the bad? Good luck sweetie! =)
2. To be honest, even if he doesn't break up with you there is a very high likelihood that he will sleep with other girls.
3. Unfortunately people move on as they mature. It's just a way of life, so personally I think that he probably will forget about you if another girl were to come along and sweep him off his feet. Especially considering that so many college girls put out easily and at such a young age your boyfriend might just want to have fun before a serious commitment. This all just depends on what kind of guy he is though.
4. Every relationship is different. Don't let statistics put doubt into your mind. During high school if he didn't leave you for some other chick, then he probably won't in college. Don't worry so much. If he does leave you it would probably be due to him maturing differently than you while in college, or in some cases immaturing. lol
5. Just if it happens happens.. Don't let it get to u its college Hun do ur he and have fun!!
6. If it is right, it will work out beautifully. He is probably scared that you will find some hot college guy too. You are going to see each other more now. I do not think that your relationship will be destroyed, by the college experience. You say that you really love one another. IF that is really true & the love is strong on both sides, you will have a wonderful life together. Experience life & enjoy this. You are worrying way too much. Youth is supposed to be fun & worry free. Good luck.
7. There's no way to predict what will happen. Just know that if the love is there and if it is strong, everything will work out. Good luck. It's a war zone out there.